Natasha Daniels
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When OCD Bosses Your Family Around
OCD doesn’t just boss you around and tell you what to do or avoid. It loves to involve family members. Often we just want our family to give in to OCD’s demands. It can be easy to make our family the enemy, when really it is OCD.
In this week’s UA-cam video I talk about how OCD can hook your family in and how it can grow your OCD even bigger.
🌸 Do you want in-depth support? Check out my online course on how to crush OCD at www.atparentingsurvivalschool.com/p/ocd-class-for-kids
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This video is made for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace medical advice.
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Відео

PSP 373: Should My Teen with OCD Watch Turtles All the Way Down?
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John Green’s new movie Turtles All the Way Down goes a long way in helping the OCD community educate the world about OCD. But should your child or teen with OCD see the movie? Well, I have mixed thoughts on that. In this week’s AT Parenting Survival Podcast I dive into the pros and cons of the movie Turtles All the Way Down and which kids would benefit from watching it. 🌸 Sign up for my FREE se...
When OCD Says You’ll Ruin…
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OCD loves to tell you that you’ll ruin things. Maybe it tells you that you’ll ruin a vacation or special occasion. Maybe it tells you that you’ll ruin your favorite belongings. Or maybe it tells you that you’ll ruin your favorite song or show. It doesn’t matter. It’s all the same in the end. Once you believe OCD’s lies you are hooked into doing OCD’s rules. A vicious cycle of compulsions that a...
PSP 372: When Kids Reject the OCD Diagnosis
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It can take so much energy to find a qualified OCD specialist to finally assess and diagnose your child with OCD. But what are you to do when your child rejects the OCD diagnosis? In this week’s AT Parenting Survival Podcast I talk about some common reasons why a child might reject an OCD diagnosis and where to go from there. 🌸 Get in-depth support to help your child with OCD in my online cours...
Using Imaginal Scripts to Get OCD Relief
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Using Imaginal Scripts to Get OCD Relief
PSP 371: Boosting Self-Esteem During Anxiety and OCD Struggles
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PSP 371: Boosting Self-Esteem During Anxiety and OCD Struggles
Disgust OCD and Contamination
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Disgust OCD and Contamination
PSP 370: We are Your Anxious Kids All Grown Up | Conversation with Amanda Stern
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PSP 370: We are Your Anxious Kids All Grown Up | Conversation with Amanda Stern
Is Your Anxiety or OCD Overwhelming You?
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Is Your Anxiety or OCD Overwhelming You?
PSP 369: Incorrect Assumptions About ERP and OCD Exposure Work
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PSP 369: Incorrect Assumptions About ERP and OCD Exposure Work
Are You Doing Mental Compulsions for OCD and Don’t Know it?!
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Are You Doing Mental Compulsions for OCD and Don’t Know it?!
PSP 368: Why OCD Can Get Worse with the Wrong Therapist
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PSP 368: Why OCD Can Get Worse with the Wrong Therapist
Are you Scared if You Go to Sleep You Won’t Wake Up?
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Are you Scared if You Go to Sleep You Won’t Wake Up?
PSP 367: If Your Child’s Anxiety or OCD Returns are You Starting Over?
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PSP 367: If Your Child’s Anxiety or OCD Returns are You Starting Over?
Is OCD Robbing You of Things You Love?
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Is OCD Robbing You of Things You Love?
PSP 366: Helping a Child with Separation Anxiety
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PSP 366: Helping a Child with Separation Anxiety
How Do OCD Exposures Work?
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How Do OCD Exposures Work?
PSP 365: Why Does My Child’s Anxiety or OCD Show Up More For ME?!
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PSP 365: Why Does My Child’s Anxiety or OCD Show Up More For ME?!
OCD and the Fear You or Others May Turn into Something Else?!
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OCD and the Fear You or Others May Turn into Something Else?!
PSP 364: How Our Parenting Styles Impact the Anxiety & OCD Journey
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PSP 364: How Our Parenting Styles Impact the Anxiety & OCD Journey
But What If My OCD Fears are REAL?
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But What If My OCD Fears are REAL?
PSP 363: The Importance of Finding the Right Therapy for OCD | One Family’s Journey
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PSP 363: The Importance of Finding the Right Therapy for OCD | One Family’s Journey
The doors to the AT Parenting Community are open!
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The doors to the AT Parenting Community are open!
Hidden Superpowers in People with OCD
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Hidden Superpowers in People with OCD
PSP 362: The Use of Storytelling in Anxiety and OCD
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PSP 362: The Use of Storytelling in Anxiety and OCD
Do You Use Google to Grow Your OCD?
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Do You Use Google to Grow Your OCD?
PSP 361: A Parenting Journey Raising a Child with Emetophobia
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PSP 361: A Parenting Journey Raising a Child with Emetophobia
Are you a parent raising a child with anxiety or OCD?
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Are you a parent raising a child with anxiety or OCD?
Is OCD Using Facts as a Weapon Against You?
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Is OCD Using Facts as a Weapon Against You?
PSP 360: Managing Our Anxiety When Our Child is Panicking
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PSP 360: Managing Our Anxiety When Our Child is Panicking

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @troywinston
    @troywinston 3 години тому

    This is really helpful to me, and I'm 54, no kids. My counselor passed away Sept. of 2022. While I have been given some great resources, I have not as yet found a counselor locally or remote to fit the bill. However, as I learn more about OCD (fairly recent diagnosis for me, but have always had it, anxiety, and depression disorders also), I found your channel, and I thank you for such as this video here. Very helpful. A bully it all is, indeed.

  • @dulcehernandez1584
    @dulcehernandez1584 8 годин тому

    Thankful for this amazing ocd therapist.

  • @RealKittenpluto
    @RealKittenpluto 21 годину тому

    When I was a kid, like 9 or 10 years old, i saw a commercial in a UA-cam video and there was something similar to bloody mary and i was so traumatized that i couldn't sleep so I just went to my phone for hours and hours until the sun has come up and my parents told me that I'm using my phone too much but i was just really scared to sleep

  • @Doglove08212
    @Doglove08212 День тому

    I wish I didn’t have this phobia

  • @pridenixon
    @pridenixon День тому

    I am going through one of the worst times of my life right now because of my OCD but this channel is helping me and making feel less alone

  • @atvideos5843
    @atvideos5843 День тому

    Honestly, this video is wonderful. Super helpful. ❤

  • @user-kf3zj9dh4u
    @user-kf3zj9dh4u 2 дні тому

    After watching your videos now I can get a good nights sleep😊😊

  • @TheFunnyBoyGamer
    @TheFunnyBoyGamer 2 дні тому

    Saw an analogue horror cant get it out of ma head

  • @mikedavidson2059
    @mikedavidson2059 2 дні тому

    Thank you for this. As as spouse of an OCD person, I wish it were as easy as simply telling my wife that I'm not going to feed her OCD and allow it to call the shots in our house and our/my life. When you're dealing with a person who is also fiercly stubborn and proud, they won't even recognize and admit the damage they are doing, let alone do anything about it. Divorce would solve the problem, but it brings about a whole different set of challenges.

    • @Natashadanielsocdtherapist
      @Natashadanielsocdtherapist 2 дні тому

      Having a partner with OCD brings a whole different set of struggles. I’d recommend reading the book When a Family Member has OCD by Jon Hershfield.

  • @saoirsecallery
    @saoirsecallery 2 дні тому

    Saved after two of your choking focused videos 😅 still experiencing anxiety around eating but just knowing I’m not alone with it & having the awareness around it information wise, I’m already improving!

  • @vogtrina
    @vogtrina 3 дні тому

    I start crying like a kid instantly I'm a 25 year old woman

  • @thatpanditTV
    @thatpanditTV 3 дні тому

    Everytime OCD gets me, i watch this video and read people comments. This is very helpful, it’s like mastering the art of not give the f*ck. I know people will keep reading this comment, guys move on - learn to handle the discomfort. It’s just in your head, we got one life so enjoy and stop bothering for things like these as we have bigger issues to deal with.

    • @thatpanditTV
      @thatpanditTV 3 дні тому

      Even i am reading my comment again😂 for the sake i conveyed my message correctly. I know i did but still i re-read it. Lol. Yeah it’s hard to fight your brain, but let’s move on.

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch 4 дні тому

    I think children with OCD who have parents that are nagging them, irrita them, etc. also need ways or methods on how to deal with it so that they can focus on their battle and communicate this to them effectively

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch 4 дні тому

    I was doing the same thing

  • @liljemark1
    @liljemark1 4 дні тому

    Such a good point!

  • @tofujelly
    @tofujelly 4 дні тому

    OCD can be insidious and relentless. Obsessive-compulsive Anonymous has really helped me with my symptoms. This is a great channel! Thank you!

  • @sazanmhrzn4699
    @sazanmhrzn4699 4 дні тому

    I am scared that a creature might attack me from under my bed

  • @Bella-wi4je
    @Bella-wi4je 4 дні тому

    I’ll def watch this video though!

  • @Bella-wi4je
    @Bella-wi4je 4 дні тому

    No cause I’m a young teen and I have horrible anxiety and idk what to do about it ☹️

  • @August_2456
    @August_2456 4 дні тому

    I wish I just didn't live. This psychiatrist gave me some tablets that made me feel this way..he worsened by mental health..I just don't know God what to do

  • @StevsDechavez-gb2fd
    @StevsDechavez-gb2fd 5 днів тому

    Im scared of sleeping alone

  • @breanaglizy5516
    @breanaglizy5516 5 днів тому

    I’m scared to sleep bc I think I’m going to get possessed or am possessed

  • @breanaglizy5516
    @breanaglizy5516 5 днів тому

    I’m having this fear right now I fear that I’m already possessed or going to get possessed and paranormal stuff is going to happen

    • @breanaglizy5516
      @breanaglizy5516 5 днів тому

      This fear is always at night! I can’t ever go to sleep, and I always have to wait for the sun to come out

  • @adlehyde44
    @adlehyde44 5 днів тому

    Sleep paralysis is what I’m scared of

  • @livv1300
    @livv1300 5 днів тому

    im scared to sleep alone well, im not afraid, i just dont like sleeping alone (separation anxiety) and i have trouble sleeping alone. i just started sleeping alone (im 12) thats how bad jt is. (its so bad i’ve already pulled 8 or 9 all niters alone.) (yes i spell night/nite like that on purpose) edit: the reason im watching this video is beacuse 1 im crying bcs of my anxiety and separation anxiety as i said. ive been sleeping next to my mom since i was 5. i started sleeping in my room when i was 4 (i grew up fast) and 2 i moved houses and ever since then i was sleeping with my mom. you made me feel very safe. thank you. :] edit 2: somthing i like to do before i fall asleep is call my friends and were trying to do like a page in our sketchbooks every day so we do that and they know abt my anxiety n stuff so sometimes i have them fall asleep first then i hang up and fall asleep (their okay and know abt the plan btw) so then me knowing like “oh nothing happened to them, thats how i know im safe” and it just makes me feel alot better :)

  • @rct_34-68
    @rct_34-68 5 днів тому

    I have it with ss on my phone

  • @jennifergomez9804
    @jennifergomez9804 5 днів тому

    I lost so much weight because I became so fearful of choking or swallowing my food nd I honestly need some advice or prayers cuss is gotten bad

  • @CollinTribble
    @CollinTribble 5 днів тому

    I have pocd and i am scared to shower

  • @Orangutan_loverr
    @Orangutan_loverr 5 днів тому

    I actually pick the skin off my lips and I really wanna stop but I can’t. My dad is like “whenever you see yourself touching your lips just stop. It’s not that hard! 😡” I mean I really wanna stop but I just can’t. It’s so hard. It bleeds. And seeing the dry skin on my fingers that I just ripped off my face just gives a sense of relief and im guessing this falls under skin picking disorder? Pls let me know

  • @livvyislovingu
    @livvyislovingu 5 днів тому

    i am scared to sleep because i am scared someone will be there when i wake up so then i don't sleep which makes me more scared to not fall asleep

  • @coolcars225
    @coolcars225 5 днів тому

    Dying when I sleep

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch 5 днів тому

    Thanks for touching on the SUPER FEARS

  • @golddragonette7795
    @golddragonette7795 6 днів тому

    This hits hard, not on my behalf but my ex. I hate his parents for doing this to him, he's still unable to say he's struggling and it makes me so damn mad

  • @MrCojowarrior
    @MrCojowarrior 6 днів тому

    Hello, I have OCD and recently I been having an urge to rewatch certain scene of show or rereading part from stories I like because I feel like I'm missing something or I'm afraid I'm trying to trick myself into thinking I read or heard something else. It's getting to the point we're I watch the same scene or read the same sentence over and over again because my brain won't let go of the idea that I'm trying to trick myself or that what I remember is false.

  • @music_Queen909
    @music_Queen909 6 днів тому

    I'm a 9 year Old and Its Kinda Working Its a Very Scary video its Willys Wonder Land i was so Scared

  • @VLou-tw4ee
    @VLou-tw4ee 6 днів тому

    I have a fear of someone seeing me that i know that knows me and will talk about me to people. Or having to speak to people from my past

  • @Boscoronibelieves
    @Boscoronibelieves 6 днів тому

    This happens to me daily. My daughter constantly asks me for reassurance around her OCD trigger which happens to be her hair. For the last year she has been pulling out her hair because it doesn’t look or feel right to her. So frustrating 😢

    • @darthkermit8791
      @darthkermit8791 6 днів тому

      Hello I hope this doesnt come off as some stranger trying to dictate the life of your child but I would just like to suggest that for me, doing something so physically demanding such as jogging a few miles while intermittent fasting helped remove any ocd/overthinking/depression I had. Sometimes having too much time to think to yourself can be a bad thing, especially when your own mind is fighting against you and as hard as it can be, having your child do some physically demanding sport such as jogging, wall climbing, swimming, wrestling, intensive jump rope, etc can really help with eliminating ticks or mental imbalances. From my understanding, the more your body struggles to stay alive physically, the less it will care for your mental ticks. This is why you hear of people being able to fight of predators and injure their bodies in the process yet feel no pain for that duration of time. Of course dont take it overboard as actually working out so much that your struggling to stay alive is wrong just have the physical strain be challenging enough that your child will have to be more concentrated on a difficult tasks in front of her than a mental tick in the back of her mind. Again hope this doesnt come off as me acting like a know-it-all for your child's well being just wanted to relay the only thing thats worked for me and that no one taught me until I myself figured it out until I was already an adult. Hope your child gets better!

  • @belizejuliette7223
    @belizejuliette7223 7 днів тому

    Crowds, noise, stand in Line

  • @julietteferrars3097
    @julietteferrars3097 7 днів тому

    Wow, that intro is excruciating. I’m shocked by how intense it is on a video about sensory sensitivity. 😓

  • @BuddywithaBeanie
    @BuddywithaBeanie 7 днів тому

    Im freaked out by a window . How do i get rid of that

  • @venomous_duck
    @venomous_duck 7 днів тому

    What do you do with a child that doesnt want to resist compulsions?

    • @Natashadanielsocdtherapist
      @Natashadanielsocdtherapist 7 днів тому

      You could try the SPACE program by Eli Lebowitz. His book Breaking Free of childhood anxiety and OCD is good.

  • @Eatmorepaper
    @Eatmorepaper 8 днів тому

    If you genuinely care about helping people, a complete title (as proper grammar) that includes the subject your eluding to. Making a title like this that doesn’t include the subject, forces people to watch your video in order to get just the basic idea. Especially for those who have ocd, will see the title and get frustrated because they need to know, even if you say the subject in the beginning of the video, that still provides a lot of time for them to freak out and because nothing is a panacea for ocd, it’s likely never going to make them feel satisfied. Do you really want people to be forced to watch in order to get the help you want to give? Including the subject may not make people want to watch immediately, but they’ll still think about it, possibly do some of their own research about it, and will often remember and watch your video when they have time, or are in a headspace that’s calm and so they can actually hear you instead of watching it while in an episode cuz their mind is too active to listen without overthinking everything that’s said. Hope you understand I’m just trying to help, not shaming you, I just think you genuinely do want to help people, and probably didn’t realize how that can be problematic. Not including the subject is also just irritating to people, so now if they do watch they are starting off skeptical

  • @sherry3146
    @sherry3146 8 днів тому

    I was so upbeat and positive yesterday that I was going to face all my fears and the what if thoughts, stop them from running the show. And today has been like one thing after another. I know these thoughts are lies, why does it hit so hard sometimes. Especially after such a good day. I stood up to one, maybe two issues today. I recognize these are lies but I feel wiped out.

  • @neko-chan6145
    @neko-chan6145 8 днів тому

    Exellent advice

  • @MegaSaanch
    @MegaSaanch 9 днів тому

    All or Nothing thinking.. it has to be perfect on paper And basically discomforts need to be tolerated or uncertainty of life

  • @Malika-zi2uv
    @Malika-zi2uv 9 днів тому

    I have a problem but I do not know if it is OCD. When I see someone I judge 'ugly', I cannot look at that person. I just ignore the person which is terrible. And I say in my head 'sorry' as an of excuse to 'god' or whatever (I do not have specific spiritual beliefs). And I feel less guilty about it. But I am afraid this is is a compulsion that I do so that something bad does not happen to me in return. But in the mean time, when we do something bad to someone, we say sorry but it does not change anything because the 'bad thing' has already been done. But it actually seems to change something when we say sorry after doing something bad, so I do not even know if it is a OCD compulsion or not...

    • @MegaSaanch
      @MegaSaanch 9 днів тому

      Same though

    • @Flower_dollies
      @Flower_dollies 7 днів тому

      Bro same here

    • @Malika-zi2uv
      @Malika-zi2uv 6 днів тому

      @@Flower_dollies huh, can you elaborate?

    • @Boscoronibelieves
      @Boscoronibelieves 6 днів тому

      This was the first sign of my daughter’s OCD. I believe it is moral OCD in a way. I would look into it further

  • @user-qr6mv1pq7i
    @user-qr6mv1pq7i 9 днів тому

    I'm a teen been to many doctors for sleep but no one lit no one could explain it better than u Tysm Tysm

  • @angustheterrible3149
    @angustheterrible3149 9 днів тому

    This video came at the perfect time thank you. Realizing OCD is the one that wants the perfect experience, not me, is a huge gamechanger. I dont want to do things "perfectly", so I think I'll start doing an exposure by letting things be " imperfect" in small ways each day.

  • @domtheedonn__
    @domtheedonn__ 9 днів тому

    This is how I feel but it’s actually true

  • @-Yuki-_IdkWhatToPut._.
    @-Yuki-_IdkWhatToPut._. 9 днів тому

    I dont really know, im just scared of the dark and im scared while im sleeping something will kill me, im not really afraid of monsters, thats not whats scaring me, im just scared to sleep alone.